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I write anything at all about life in a fat body, literally anything. Or any other big girl. My personal philosophy is that the men who are screaming their asses off about it are just so conditioned to societal beauty standards that their attraction to women with bodies that fall into a plus-size category makes them feel confused and ashamed. Over the course of my life as a big girl I have wished I had a lot more of many, many things.
Jesus, Jes, I really really like this. If there's anything I can add, it would be that nobody likes how they look in photos - at first. Photographs are the easiest way to take of all of our physical "flaws" in one go; and those perceived flaws are different in all of us.
It may take sexy, but the more big do it, the more you will come to look at your own body as a work of girl. Like the abstract painting, you find new meaning and sensuality in the lines of your body; a photographer and I use the term loosely, anyone with a camera will do has captured you as a work of art, and you will come to appreciate your body as such. So many of my friends shy away from my camera because they say they don't like how they photograph, that it brings up their body issues. I want to take their picture because I think they're beautiful, and I just wish more of them would give me the chance to help them change their minds!!
I've said it before, but the most powerful part of that Body Image s series is that I send nervous women the images of them mostly naked and doubled over I think its because of exactly what you said: it becomes art. And art is beautiful.
Always: Thanks for mentioning this:. I agree with you too Jess, I have a lot of issues with my body and to help myself with it I went to a friend who is a photographer and we did a photo Can. Some of the pictures are hard for me to look at but most of them I was stunned at how beautiful they are. Slowly falling in love with myself I agree with you on this too I have a lot of issues with my body and thought a good way to help myself out with it was to have pictures done of myself, so I went to a friend that is a photographer and asked her to do a photo shoot with me.
Well not only did I have a blast being a model for the day I found that I was literally jaw dropping gorgeous in the pictures. The bad days I have I go look at that woman in the pictures and remind myself that that is me and I am jaw dropping gorgeous. I adore photos from shoots and honestly did not think I was attractive until I started modeling and seeing the photos. I have the problem of being 5'4" and lbs I have an hour glass figure that I like until I try to go cloths shopping for something that fits me in all areas my chest and hips are "too big" for my waist".
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I never cared for how I looked because I have always thought thick girls were attractive so I am not happy with my body. I guess my point here is it doesn't matter what size you are because someone is always going to want to be shaped like you and until you master it you will always want to be shaped like someone else. Im ok with how I look now and just wish they would start making cloths for women with my tiny yet curvy size.
I tend to recommend a photo shoot to anyone I know who is uneasy with their appearance and hook them up with a photographer that I know will do them justice. A little hair and makeup and some flattering cloths and they realize how gorgeous they really are. Sorry that was kind of rambly and slightly incoherent. This blog was absolutely beautiful. All of that was stuff I needed to hear.
I love love love reading your blogs. You are an amazing person!
Brian and I need to visit you because I would love the chance to meet you!! Lots of hugs for you: And it's Brian's turn to visit me, so come on down! If you don't want to rent a room, I have a queen bed and a couch.
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Dibs on the couch! Jes, this was really great to read. People can tell you these things, but sometimes it's really hard to absorb. I would always try to stand up or elongate my body so I could avoid my rolls from being seen, and I would just always be uncomfortable and upset with myself. Sometimes I would even just try to suck it in all the time and that sucked royally. However, something that I think should be on this list is that everyone fakes confidence at one point. It does happen!! We all totally do!
And sometimes, it gets even better: I remember reading a Cosmo article along the lines of "how to lie in bed so you look thinner during sex". Because that's what he's going to be thinking about. And because that's what you should be thinking about. But yeah, I adore you.
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Loving the shoes- I have a bit of weakness for red shoes! Oh and fab post as always! Holy sexy mama! Love this, it really helped me right now. I've been really off my game and have been feeling a bit blah lately.
In a way, this can speak to anyone of any size. It definitely spoke volumes to someone forever recovering from anorexia, so thank you so much.
You are so right. I tweeted out the link with that addition - I don't think there is any woman who couldn't benefit from reading this. I am one of your newer followers, thanks to Rachele and over the last few weeks of reading your post every single one leaves me thinking. At times I am not a very confident Plus Size girl but with all of the support and encouragement from Rachele, You, and a whole crap ton of other ladies. I am finally liking what I see in the mirror, still a work in progress though.
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Thank you for all the amazing posts, pictures, words of encouragements, and your straight up IDGAF attitude. You look amazing! I totally feel the same way. Fat positive blogs changed my life!
Love your site. I'm new-ish, but absolutely adore this blog.
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This post was just so fantastic. For real Jes, I love you! Thanks; You're pretty fucking awesome as well. How have a never read your blog before?? You are a badass and totally rocking that leopard! I just read this and it changed my life at least my point of view, which is enough Haven't read anything so good in many MANY time.
Plenty of men are totally fine with a big girl, and enjoy a thick, curvy, soft, or even objectively fat partner.
You are one gorgeous gal!!! I would add since I play for both teams that girls can also find you sexy AND you can bang hot girls. Ok well I have a girlfriend so the multiple girls is in theory. And a husband I'm also poly! Look at that--a Goddess sized woman with TWO people who want her!!
Also--when you get a compliment, don't just believe it--say thank you! Just as important for boys! Smile at yourself in the mirror. It's ok to post pictures of yourself on your blog because you are proud of who you are and you want to encourage others to feel good about themselves--NOT because you're trying to "get attention" that bullshit courtesy of my mother Thank you for such an amazing post This is amazing You are inspiring.
This is, indeed, awesome It is appalling to see how many women that are beautiful believe they're not just because of the size they are. But still, some of us must acknowledge that looks aren't our strong point, whatever size we are. And that's still ok. I'm one of the unfortunate ones.
I am not pretty, by most all? And that's totally separate from the fact that I'm fat. But I have other stuff going for me. To acknowledge it is to accept it, or decide to work on it.
And move on. Thats a really interesting viewpoint, and who am I to say you're wrong? If recognizing your inherent talents and strengths and leaving your looks behind brings you peace and happiness More power to you grrrlfriend. You have answered one of those questions that has plagued me my whole life.
Everyone has rolls. Being a fat girl from babyhood I always looked at the skinny people and wondered. My life is complete now I have the answer :.